first warning: post ini panjang dan agak membosankan.... =p
i read this one particular person punye blog,
n he said that he doesn't respect girls that have a boyfriend...
why did he said such thing??
he has his own opinion so i can't say it is wrong coz other different people has different opinion on something...
why is that??
because they see things differently...
maybe other people will see thing in a different angle like we did...
so back to the top when i was saying he doesn't respect girls who has boyfriend,
or in other words, girls who are so deeply in love n is in a relationship...
he said that because from his point of view:
girls who are in love, they will tend to be devoted to her partner, so she will do anything for him....
dalam erti kata laen, pompuan tue mcm memperbodoh kan diri die sendiri...
girls always let themselves being used by their partner...
she will do what she's being asked to, no questions being ask.. just do what the boyfie told them to do...
n that is stupid...
girls always let their emotion take over their mind...
sometimes, all the simple things get worse coz girls always think irrationally with their emotion n not mind...
n sometimes girls do not care where they are, if they feel like crying, they'll cry even if there's a thousand people in front of her...
n if they feel like scolding the boyfie, she'll do it...
they don't care about the surroundings they are in...
that is his opinions on girls n that's why he didn't give his respect to girls with boyfriend...
n to his conclusion, girls only become stupid when they have boyfriend...
izit true??
but to me, everything has its own pros and cons...
why girls are tend to be devoted to their partner? its just natural...
it's the nature of being us, girls...
n that is why we rarely hear people say a girl is a playgirl...
but we always hear people say PLAYBOYS...
n do girls always say that they will do anything for their partner??
because when a girl loves someone, she will truly love him so she will try n do anything for the sake of keeping the relationship so that it won't fall to pieces...
why do girls always do what the boyfie told them to do??
because, usually, when they refuse to do it, the boyfie will tend to threat the girl...
even it might just be a joke, girls will still be afraid...
so, we as girls, we are built weak in emotion so when we are threatened, we will be scared, it's better we do it... besides, it's for the one we love...
girls, we tend to think in a lot of different ways when a something happen, and that is why simple things sometimes could get worse....
n when a lot has gone through her mind, accidentally they will use their emotions to think...
they just need someone to pull her back to the ground and think rationally n that cud be her boyfie...
and when a girl start to cry or being mad to the boyfie, just know that we as girls, we didn't mean to do that...
when we are sad, of coz we cry and when we are mad, we scold someone...
this things can't be hold, it's just go out just like that...
plus, it's not good to hold it inside....
boys are the same as well, when they are mad, they scold people no matter where they are....
they just dun't cry in front of people coz of their ego... =p
so to my conclusion, girls are not being stupid when they are in love...
we all are aware that love is blind, so dun't blame girls, blame love coz they make us blind...
and the truth is, it's not just girls who are being stupid when they are in love,
boys can stupid as well when they are truly in love...
remember, everything has its own pros and cons...
we can't just think about something from one side only, we have to think it from both side....
when something happen, dunt be quickly to point fingers to other people...
think before you do something...
everything happen for a reason,
n everything is made for a reason...
so there will be balance in life...
everything has to be balance right...
girls with soft-heart while guys with high ego...
plus, girls and boys both need each other,
it is always meant to be that way...
i am writing this not to blame anyone,
it's just i am letting out my personal opinion...
it is not based on anything, it's just something that i think it is...
no offence to anyone okay... =)
well, like i said, everyone has their own opinion,
so feel free to tell your own opinion...
=)
p/s: ilyg....
